My Beloved Sister,
I will always say it, that women are great people. And so are you. I have been in touch and observed many women in the past few weeks. When I think of all they do – as sisters, friends, girlfriends, mothers and wives, I just appreciate them.
One of the best ways of getting experience before starting a job is through internship, as we see in most professional courses. Being married is a job on its own. Before you go in there, it is good you have an idea of what goes on in there. Remember that you are going to be a queen over an empire – your home. Whatever comes out of it, including your children, would be affected greatly by you whom most household responsibilities fall on.
Visualize your home. How do you want it to be? How do you want your family to be? What kind of rules and laws will guide your home? Think about these.
Then take a step further and visit homes. Observe, interact and learn. Take out the best things from each of them. How best is it to talk to your king and treat him? How best is it to correct children at different ages? Would you need to be a full-time housewife or a part-time career woman? What do wives do? What do mothers do?
Your period of being single is not a curse. It is a blessing. You have an advantage many women who rushed into marriage did not have.
If you are married, keep learning how to treat your king and raise a family. There are older women to learn from[1].
Recommended Reading
1. How To Choose A Life Partner: 165 Questions To Ask by Pastor Bimbo Odukoya
I will always say it, that women are great people. And so are you. I have been in touch and observed many women in the past few weeks. When I think of all they do – as sisters, friends, girlfriends, mothers and wives, I just appreciate them.
One of the best ways of getting experience before starting a job is through internship, as we see in most professional courses. Being married is a job on its own. Before you go in there, it is good you have an idea of what goes on in there. Remember that you are going to be a queen over an empire – your home. Whatever comes out of it, including your children, would be affected greatly by you whom most household responsibilities fall on.
Visualize your home. How do you want it to be? How do you want your family to be? What kind of rules and laws will guide your home? Think about these.
Then take a step further and visit homes. Observe, interact and learn. Take out the best things from each of them. How best is it to talk to your king and treat him? How best is it to correct children at different ages? Would you need to be a full-time housewife or a part-time career woman? What do wives do? What do mothers do?
Your period of being single is not a curse. It is a blessing. You have an advantage many women who rushed into marriage did not have.
If you are married, keep learning how to treat your king and raise a family. There are older women to learn from[1].
Recommended Reading
1. How To Choose A Life Partner: 165 Questions To Ask by Pastor Bimbo Odukoya
2. Preparing for Marriage God's Way: A Step-By-Step Guide for Marriage Readiness and After-The-Wedding Conflicts by Mack, Wayne A.
